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How to Tell if Your Boyfriend is
Cheating on You
 There are many signs of a cheating boyfriend, but the most common ones will
be the little details. Your boyfriend will remember to cover most of his tracks,
but the little things will eventually be overlooked. That’s how you can catch
him in the act!
Your boyfriend will give quite a few subtle signs. His personality will change a
bit. He might become defensive when you ask him where he’s been. He will tell
you that you’re smothering him, that you are too clingy or too possessive.
Then, he will inform you that he’s going out with the boys…again.
Is he really going out with them? Or with someone else? Give him a call while
he’s gone to make sure. If he tells you that you’re smothering him again, what’s
new? You’ve already been accused of that!
If you suspect he is seeing someone in particular, mention that person’s name
out of the blue. One afternoon after he’s come home from work and seems relaxed,
simply ask, “Who is _____?”
His reaction will tell you a great deal. If he squirms and asks you “What?” when
you know he heard you, he’s just buying time to think of a good answer. A
suspicious “Where did you hear that name?” speaks volumes, too. Watch his eyes
and face for signs of concealed panic.
Does he start visiting a tanning salon and paying much more attention to his
appearance? Watch for new clothes in his closet, especially new underwear. One
of the first things a man will do when he’s having an affair is buy new
underwear for his lover’s enjoyment.
If he comes home with a tan but swears he’s been at work all day, then you might
want to check into how many vacation days he has left. Has he been using them
for afternoon rendezvous with his new lover?
When you suggest taking some time away, maybe going on a vacation for a week, he
tenses up. No way, he says. We can’t do that! But when you press the issue, he
admits he doesn’t have enough vacation time to go away.
Truth is, he doesn’t WANT to go away. He can’t take his lover with him if he’s
with you!
There are dozens of sneaky ways your boyfriend will try to hide his
indiscretions. Pay attention to the little signs he might not think to cover up,
and you can catch him at his own game. What other signs will point to a cheating
boyfriend?
by
Christina Caci, in
www.articlesbase.com
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